Cat Got Your Tongue? How to Have Those Hard Conversations.

"Understanding and Love are interdependent. Love is made of Understanding and Understanding is made of Love." — Thich Nhat Hanh


Conflict in life is inevitable. How you deal with it can make or break your success at the office and at home.  

Whether it's how much time we spend with our family, holding someone accountable at work, or even telling the waiter our meal wasn't quite to our liking, having the tools to resolve conflicts in a healthy manner will make all of us a little happier don't you think?

What if there was a way for you to have a tough conversation with your spouse, your colleague, your family or friend that left you feeling more connected, more loving, more appreciative and more grateful?

What if this system worked each and every time?

Well you've come to the right place.

During this 60 minute webinar, you will:

  • understand the nature of a "hard" conversation;
  • identify what stops you from having them;
  • develop strategies to have them go successfully and,
  • make it easier on someone else who is having a difficult conversation with you (even if you don't want to).


Once you sign up, you will receive a confirmation email giving you a link to the course. Watch your inbox and/or check your SPAM folder.

Purchase The "Reclaim Your Sanity" Series: Cat Got Your Tongue!

What is the "Reclaim Your Sanity" Series Series About Anyway?

In these 60-minute pre-recorded master classes, you will tackle professional and personal struggles (the ones you can’t or don’t want to chat about with your partner or best friend). You’ll go from feeling slightly insane to having a handle on solutions. 

Watch me coach people as we navigate life's ridiculous montage, and tackle a variety of topics both professional and personal. From blunders in the workplace to personal loss, from dealing with your teenagers to caring for your aging parents, these and other irritations can either drive us to insanity or inspire us to overcome and thrive.

Each pre-recorded masterclass features a proven tool you can add to your "bag of tricks" and use as needed as you move through the challenges of life. 



Series Structure

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Get the "Cat Got Your Tongue" Replay here!

About the instructor

Executive Coach Speaker/Training Best-Selling Author

Jen Coken

This is the part where I share my life story, right?If it’s okay with you I’d like to go about this another way. Rather than give you a TEDx-worthy rendition of how I found my way to coaching CEOs and entrepreneurs for the past 20 years, I want to share a few of the things that make me tick. The kind of nuggets you’d learn if we shared a coconut milk latte.  Here goes:To me, work and play are one.When you’re juggling a tangle of responsibilities or wading your way through full-stop crises, life can seem so serious. Embracing the ridiculousness of life is what keeps me afloat. Humor and playfulness are what make me feel less alone and help me “get it all done.”Questions are my best friends.And listening? We gab over chips and guac every Tuesday night. My point is, I love discovery and looking at circumstances with new eyes. And: I whole-heartedly enjoy pushing boundaries and throwing bias to the side.It’s how we get into uncharted territory (and how I survived 30 years as a grassroots organizer in politics). They call me the “Velvet Sledgehammer”I tend to cut through the crap and I’ve got a serious thing for authenticity. My vision is a world where you are free to be yourself, grounded in who you are, and achieving your soul's purpose...but arriving there begins with getting real about why things are they way they are (in a judgement-free space, of course).I don’t work with my clients forever—here’s why:You already have the power you achieve your goals. My job is to listen. To help you arrive at your own answers. To help you craft an actionable plan for tapping into that power. Once you take your finger out of that damn there’s no going back. Let me be abundantly clear: My work is about solutions and forward momentum.And I raise the bar on people (even if they set high to begin with).I live for helping people achieve breakthroughs. We’re here to fulfill a destiny after all! Achieving your goals is one thing. Shirking old have-to’s and should’s is another. But going beyond what you think you’re capable of? That’s what my process revolves around. Seeing people do their heart’s work is why I do this work.Want to chat more? You can schedule a free 30 minute discovery call with me today. Or find me on Twitter @jcoken, Facebook @jencoken and on Instagram @jencoken. And, if you’re in Rockville Maryland, you can just try yelling my name really loud ;)